Cultivating gratitude can be challenging at times, especially during the holidays. If you’d like to practice thankfulness at home during the month of November, I have some ideas for you to try!

Gratitude Banner – This is the activity that my family is doing this year. I created a stringed banner with 15 double-sided pennants. Each day in November, we will all write something we’re grateful for on one pennant. The front sides of all the pennants will be written on November 1-15th, then we’ll turn it around and write on the back sides November 16-30th. Creating the banner was fairly easy, but there are inexpensive pennant garlands to order on Amazon!

Thankful Box– We did this several years ago and it was a hit with the family! Use a basket, or cover a shoebox with paper and decorate it with fall stickers or shapes. Prepare a stack of little pieces of paper (or purchase a pack of autumn die-cut paper shapes from Amazon) for everyone to write things they are thankful for each day and drop them in the box or the basket. Open the box or basket on Thanksgiving Day and read them aloud! 

Dinner Conversation Starters– Use this list of conversation starters around the breakfast or dinner table each day of November! If you like, you can print the list and cut it into strips to place in a basket and pull one out each day. The second page of the list has prompts for younger children.

Gratitude Journal – Use this list of journal prompts to write about things you are grateful for every day of November.  This can be done individually or as a family in a communal journal. This is great for homeschooling families to use as a language arts activity for the month! 

Colored Candy Thanksgiving Activity – We have used this activity on Thanksgiving a few times. Buy a bag of multi-colored candy (m-n-m’s work best) and pour them into a brown paper bag. Print the image below and attach it to the bag. As you pass it around the table, each person pulls a candy from the bag. Depending on the color, the person follows the prompt and shares something they are thankful for. 

May your November be full of gratitude leading up to Thanksgiving!

 

blessings,

We are in relationship with a loving God. Though I cannot see Him with my eyes, He has become so tangible to me and to my heart.

This morning, I was emotional and grateful for a certain friendship He has provided in my life. I was thinking, “Lord, why are you so good to me? I don’t deserve it…”

Before I could really finish that pitiful thought, He spoke to my heart, “I do it because I LOVE you. I have walked with you and carried you for 40 years.”

Thanks for rounding up, God. My 40th birthday is not until next March! (These are the kinds of super-spiritual thoughts I have in the morning.)

Then, He pointed out to me that this summer marks the 40 yr anniversary of when my mom discovered she was pregnant with me. He HAS walked with me for 40 years! He has been present, guiding, loving, and providing for 40 years. What a milestone. What an amazing God. I am His, and He is mine.

Yet You are He Who took me out of the womb; You made me hope and trust when I was on my mother’s breasts.

I was cast upon You from my very birth; from my mother’s womb You have been my God.

Psalm 22:9-10

How long has He walked with you? Celebrate the milestone!

Just a quick blog. Two days in a row… I know. Someone call a doctor!

You know that saying, “If you love something, set it free…” ? The idea is that if you release something that you care about, if it’s meant to be yours, then it will come back to you. If not, then you’re better off without it.

I don’t think it’s necessarily scriptural, but I know that God works similarly to this principle. When I hold onto things, it goes from being a blessing from God to being luggage that I must carry around. When I hold onto things, I am unable to receive anything new from Him because my hands are full. When I hold onto things, I miss out on the blessing I would receive by giving it to someone else.

I learned this lesson anew today. Back up to a few weeks ago… I was packing up baby clothes to take to my sister (who just had twin boys two months ago) and there were some items that I didn’t think I could part with. Of course, my little Levi can’t wear them anymore… but they were so adorable and I was tempted to hold onto them as keepsakes. The Lord pressed me a bit, and I reluctantly folded them up and put them in the pile for my sweet little nephews. Tears…

Today, I received some hand-me-downs from a remarkable friend, who has been loaning me baby boy clothes since Levi was born. I took her the 3 bins of 12-18 mo clothes I had on retainer… and traded them in for a bin and an oversized bag of fall and winter 12-24 mo clothes.

Well, if I didn’t cry (again) while going through the fabulous new wardrobe for my boy. There were some pieces that are identical to the favorite items that I gave to my sister! I received this blessing because I let go of what I had.

Great lesson… one I’ll probably have to learn again and again! God is so good, even in the little things. He is always, always good.

Let it go, friends, whatever it is.  Set it free!