We always dread returning to “real life” after Christmas vacation. While it’s nice to slow down, enjoy the holidays, reflect on the spiritual value of Christmas, and spend time with family without all the demanding schedules… I realized this week that I was not made for Christmas vacation.
As the break from school and work came to an end, I found myself surrounded by a cloud of despair. I hadn’t felt that “blue” in a long time. Weeping at every turn, and literally fearing the days to come, I kept crying out to the Lord.
I can’t do it.
I can’t homeschool my children.
It’s too hard.
I can’t keep up with everything… the baby, the housework, the kids’ schedules.
Yet Monday came, whether or not I thought I was ready. God was certainly ready. He led me to have the kids do some independent school work on the first day, while I planned the month of January. Tuesday came and I had more energy and enthusiasm for school. God was carrying me along. Suddenly, it was Thursday and we were wrapping up the week. We took off to Knott’s Berry Farm on Friday to celebrate!
Funny thing is… I didn’t feel blue all week. The despair was gone.
What did I learn? I am made to live a life of purpose. A life where responsibilities, rewards, and even failure flow in a steady rhythm. Christmas vacation is not real life. While it’s full of joy and wonder and time to rest, it lacks the day-to-day framework that allows me to live out the calling of my life. Right now, I am called to teach my children and raise them up to be spiritual, loving, educated, responsible people. When I got back to the daily structure of carrying out my purpose, I felt so renewed. Purpose replaced the despair.
I am so grateful to be where I am. It is becoming more and more clear to me that I do not know what is best for me! However, God knows what I need in every way… and I will keep trusting Him to lead and plan out my life.