“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. 1 Peter 3:3-5
We live in a world that values outward beauty. Today’s unrealistic and demanding standard of beauty slams against our self-image daily. Even in the church, there is talk about ensuring that our bodily temples are small enough to be worthy of God.
Yet scripture is clear about where beauty comes from. We see in the verses above that our beauty does not come from our outward appearance. Not from our hair, accessories, or clothes. Notice that bodies and body size are not mentioned at all in this passage. Inner beauty is important to God. If He valued a certain size body, wouldn’t it be mentioned here, where the criteria for beauty is clearly outlined?
It’s right there in the Bible. God values the unfading beauty of your inner self. He knows that physical attractiveness fades over time, but inner beauty shines and actually becomes brighter as we are transformed by the Lord year after year.
God is cultivating a gentle and humble beauty in us as we become more and more like Jesus… the most humble and gentle One of all. God is also developing a quiet beauty in us, as we learn to trust Him more completely and have less need to complain, worry, or control.
Beloved, it’s time to let go of the world’s standard of beauty and embrace the inner beauty that God places a high priority on. If He wanted you to be in a smaller body without rolls or wrinkles, He would have said so Himself.
Give yourself permission to serve Him in the body you have today.
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